What's Consent?

Consent is saying “yes” or agreeing to something because you REALLY want to, knowing you can freely change your mind at any time.
ANY TIME.

It is not consent if you feel pressured, scared, or if you are being lied to about something that would change your decision. (So, no cap* with consent.)

*a slang phrase meaning no lie/lies

It is also not consent if your ability to say yes is not fully there—such as when you are mentally or physically impaired, too young to consent, or not sober (physically or emotionally).

Consent doesn’t feel like someone is making you do something. “It is enthusiastic”, meaning you are excited and happy about saying yes.

Consent is also honest because you aren’t just saying yes to please someone. Instead you are saying yes to please yourself…BECAUSE YOU REALLY WANT TO say yes. (We can’t say this enough.)

And consent is clear. So asking sounds more like "Do you want to kiss?" instead of "Do you want to do something fun?" And answering sounds more like “Yes, I would love to do that.” “Absolutely!” “I was waiting for you to ask!” rather than “I guess so…” “if you want to” “I’m not sure.” (And remember, nonverbal NOs count too.)

So, as the simple saying goes, “If it’s not a clear 'yes,' it’s a no.” Do we need to break that one down as well?

Don't worry,
our comics do.

And on a more sentimental note, consent is about care and respect in relationships. At Consent Comics, we genuinely want what's best for people. It is up to each one of us to treat every human with value. Seeking consent is caring for other human beings enough to make sure they feel that value and are safe and respected on this earth.

So, let’s all do better, and strive for consensual, caring relationships in every part of our lives.